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The café

Waiter at the Café du Marché, Paris.
Man sitting at a Parisian café reading newspaper

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"In the span of just one week, at a Parisian café, one can glean more insights into the life and customs the city, than spending an entire year in an English hotel."
Donald Grant Mitchell, Fresh Gleanings, University of Michigan Library, 1847.
chapter 1

First Class Café

In first-class cafés, the dining rooms are adorned with great elegance, even splendor. Marble pilasters, strategically arranged for effect, and other ornaments reflect in large mirrors tastefully positioned around the room.

On one side, an elecated seat with an elegant desk or counter, often embellished with a hanging canopy, is presided over by a woman chosen for her good looks. She is the genius overseeing the establishment, maintening order and decency among the patrons with the soft the soft -yet effective- power of her presence. Skilfully, she dirests the waitstaff in their duties, handles patrons’ change with extraordinary grace, and responds to any remarks with accomplished politeness.

Donald Grant Mitchell,
Fresh Gleanings, University of Michigan Library, 1847.

The entrance of the Café Les Deux Magots, Paris

Les Deux Magots, an iconic Parisian café, took its name by two chinese figurines that once adorned the sign of a novelty store located on the site of the current café. Source: Sortir à Paris.

Waiters preparing their trays at the Café Les Deux Magots, Paris

The waiters are traditionally dressed in a black log and a white apron, and the pastry service is done on a tray. Hot chocolate, their signature beverage, is made from chocolate bars. Source: Sortir à Paris.

Decor details inside the Les Deux Magots Café, Paris

The café became a pole of attraction for artists and intellectuals, such as André Breton and his fellow Surrealists, Pablo Picasso, Ernest Hemingway and Jean-Paul Sartre. Source: Sortir à Paris.

chapter 2

Café around the clock

The café is the hub of Parisian public life, akin to what Wall Street is for strictly commercial individuals. It serves as a forum for discussing politics and the amusements of the day. Each table forms its own group, and conversations are conducted discreetly so as not to disturb nearby neighbors […]

Donald Grant Mitchell,
Fresh Gleanings, University of Michigan Library, 1847.

In the café, the Parisian enjoys chocolate and a newspaper, a half-cup with a cigar, the company of a mistress alongside ice cream. The provincial takes lunch and the National (note:a French journal), sips absinthe with his wife. Even the Englishman indulges in Galignani (note: some book bought from an famous Parisian bookstore) and eggs, while the German opts for beer and pipe.

As midday approaches, the little half-cup prevails over the breakfast bowl, and there is a noticeable decrease in visitors over the next three hours. […] Soon, the old bachelors and men in quarrels with their wives make their appearance.

As the day progresses, after-dinner idlers arrive. Elderly ladies with little white dogs search for tables, enjoying their coffee. Outdoor seats fill up with laughter, relaxation, sipping, and conversation. The lamps illuminate the scene. Young men order ice creams, and old men opt for punch. Dominoes can be heard clinking at various tables.

As the clock strikes nine, ten, eleven, and twelve, the Parisian world winds down. Buses have ceased running, shutters are closed, and people begin to leave, not for home – a term absent from their vocabulary – but chez eux.

Donald Grant Mitchell,
Fresh Gleanings, University of Michigan Library, 1847.

Couple sitting at the terrace of a Parisian café
Couple talking at a Parisian café
Lady writing at a Parisian café
chapter 3

How to behave at a Parisian café

Upon entering these cafés, one may spot a person in a white apron, mustached, holding a coffee pot, and gracefully leaning to read a newspaper: he is the waiter. A call of “waiter!”  three times prompts the office lady to ring a small doorbell, relieving the server. If you exude a distinguished air, two calls may suffice, and if you look lordly, no calls may be necessary. […]

The waiter, delivering change, anticipates a tip. A penny elicits a head tilt; two prompts a thank-you; and generously leaving three pennies results in a deep bow, muttered thanks, and even door-opening. Exiting, a hat is raised to the lady, whose calm response indicates she has acknowledged half of Europe’s coffee drinkers.

Donald Grant Mitchell,
Fresh Gleanings, University of Michigan Library, 1847.

The terrace of a Parisian café at Ile Saint-Louis
Waiter taking order at a Parisian café-restaurant in Montmartre
Waiter with tray at a Parisian café
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chapter 4

The waiter

Now, let’s consider this café waiter. His movements are swift and precise, perhaps a touch too eager. Approaching patrons with a brisk step, he leans forward with eagerness, and his voice and eyes display a solicitous interest in the customer’s order.

Finally, there he returns, attempting to mimic the inflexible stiffness of some kind of automaton while carrying his tray with the recklessness of a tightrope walker […]. His entire demeanor appears to be an act.

He applies himself to chaining his movements as they were mechanisms, each one regulating the other; his gestures and even his voice seem to operate like mechanisms. He instills in himself the quickness and pitiless rapidity of things. He is playing, amusing himself. But what is he playing?

He is playing the role of a waiter in a café. There is nothing here that should surprise us. This is a game of detection and investigation. Just as a child plays with his body to explore it, and meticulously study it, the waiter in the café plays with his condition to materialize it.

Now, let’s consider this café waiter. His movements are swift and precise, perhaps a touch too eager. Approaching patrons with a brisk step, he leans forward with eagerness, and his voice and eyes display a solicitous interest in the customer’s order.

This obligation is not unique; all tradesmen must deliver similar performances. Their social status demands a ceremonious display, as the public insists they confine themselves to their designated roles. There’s a dance of the grocer, the tailor, the auctioneer, where they strive to convince clients that they are nothing but their trade. A grocer who dreams is offensive because he transcends his role. Society insists on constraining individuals within their defined functions, taking precautions to prevent escape from assigned roles, as if living in perpetual fear of someone breaking away from their prescribed condition.

Jean-Paul Sartre,
L’Être et le Néant, NRF – Gallimard, 1943.

Waiters helping each other at Parisian café
Waiters talking to each other at Parisian café
Waiters serving at Parisian café

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